Overcoming Old Fears
I recently re-watched the movie, The King’s Speech starring Colin Firth and Geoffrey Rush. It’s about the true story of the relationship between King George VI of Great Britain and his speech therapist in the 1940s. Colin Firth plays King George and Rush plays Lionel Logue.
George had a debilitating stutter which, given his role, caused serious problems as he was called on to speak in public regularly. Even more, as WWII began, he had to rally the nation with a series of wartime speeches.
Upon George’s father’s death, his brother abdicates, and George becomes King. George goes to see his friend Logue and they have a heart-to-heart conversation about the complicated dynamics of George’s upbringing. They also discuss looming comparisons and expectations with his father and brother. Eventually, Logue tells George, “You don’t need to be afraid of the things you were afraid of when you were five.”
This is a poignant line in the movie. It’s also a great reminder for all of us.
Are there any entrenched fears from when you were younger that are no longer relevant or useful? Even the person you were two or three years ago - are there things that you were afraid of that you don’t need to be worried about now?
Take inventory when you’re making a decision or acting out of a place of fear; then think about what types of things trigger this. If it is a legitimate concern and needs extra attention, you can choose to keep it. If it’s not serving you well anymore, you can choose to set it down.
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Emily Sander is an ICF-certified leadership coach with more than 15 years of experience in the business and the author of Hacking Executive Leadership. She’s been featured in several print publications, online articles, and podcasts, including CEO Today Magazine, Leading to Fulfillment, and Leadership Powered by Common Sense.
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